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The Truth About Honesty

The Truth about HonestyPerhaps Tom Peter’s said it best when he declared “upon having thine leadership crown placed upon thine head, thou shalt never hear the unvarnished truth again.”


Sound like words from upon high?  Well, maybe they really are.  While not chiseled in stone, these words have meaning that has transcended time and trendy business theories. 


Honesty is in short supply within your own organization.  That’s why it’s often necessary to seek objective counsel from outside the company.


But you must be aware.


It can bruise egos, challenge sacred cows, and rattle the corporate politicians who have likely been entrenched for years.  And that’s not to say what it can cost a person with enough resolve to not be the “yes man.” In some companies, it will cost a job at the least.


If you’re the top brass, think about it.


After you’ve reached the position of “leader,” you forget what it feels like to worry about giving honest advice on the situation and direction of the company.  It’s easy to forget what that knot in your stomach feels like when you sit at the throne instead of having to look up at it.


It can be a scary thing to tell the Emperor he’s not wearing any clothes – especially if he looks funny without them.


I’ve seen some board rooms that look like a game of political dodge ball. Nobody wants to have the “what do you really think” gun aimed at them.  They scurry about or sheepishly cower. And when the proverbial deer is in the headlights, you’ll get an answer so filtered of controversial substance it would even look out of place in a Disney animation film.


We’re a society that seeks approval and acceptance.  To tell the truth and nothing but the truth, you have to be willing to be ostracized and ridiculed. This can be daunting to some people - especially when not doing so can cost you more than peer approval; it can cost you your job and emotional well-being. 


To the members of the nervous “herd” on the inside, it is a fruitless quest of the naïve and company martyrs to speak up and tell the top manager what she really needs to hear. 


If you ask me, the herd just can’t see the forest for all of the trees.  And the higher-ups are either afraid of being exposed, putting their head in the sand while assuring themselves the hard-to-face issues will go away, are inflicted with a self-centered complex that keeps them grasping their position of authority, or are just plain oblivious.  Often, it’s a combination of each.


That may sound like a harsh characterization, but it is an intentional effort to shake you into looking hard at your own situation - for the sake of you, your company and the people that are touched by it.


Behind every great disaster – from the demise of the railroad industry and the doomed voyage of the Titanic to the fall of Boston Market – there were people on the inside that felt they couldn’t speak honestly.  In the end, not speaking up cost them their jobs anyway.  Unfortunately, it cost the companies their lives.  And all because the leadership within these organizations created a culture of fear - unwittingly declaring “it’s OK to be honest with management here as long as we like what we hear.”


So where am I going with all of this? 


Honestly?


All businesses are dying on a daily basis.  Keeping them alive with perpetuity is a close-to-impossible art to try and master.  Identifying a problem or potential problem is the first step in fixing it and keeping your business prosperously alive.  One person can’t do it all alone – you need honest feedback from around you. 


Here are a few suggestions to consider when evaluating your own situation:


1. Run a company wide survey – In this survey, use customers and employees.  Comment cards won’t cut it.  It’s amazing to me that companies have a standard comment card system and think that the information they get has any real meaning.  These systems only capture the most pleased 5 percent and the most dissatisfied 5 percent of their constituents. You need to know what’s going on in the minds of the 90 percent in the middle.  Give a safe venue for your key stakeholders to tell you the truth anonymously and without fear of retaliation.  Be prepared to hear some things you don’t want to hear.  Also be prepared to take action in a positive, meaningful and public way. 


2. Launch an anonymous suggestion system – This may sound like an overlap for the above, but it’s not.  Surveys achieve a high statistical confidence, but they are a snap shot in time.  Put an anonymous suggestion system in place that is recorded, archived and encourages input from the 90 percent in the middle.  Just looking at the suggestions as they come through and then tossing them is like going shopping and putting all of your groceries in someone else’s cart. You may get to see everything, but in the end you don’t get to put any of what you collected to use.


3. Don’t worry about the “who,” worry about the “what” – Treat the problem, not the symptoms.  This is the most telling sign if you have a culture lacking of necessary honesty. Do you frequently hear or speak a stern “who said that” or “who did that” in your organization?  Shooting the messenger is a great way to ensure cover-up, deception, fear and a company filled with yes-men when the “who” is always sought after.  Fix the systems and you’ll not have to micro manage the people.


4. Re-wire the company culture – My prediction is that you’ll be hearing a lot more about “culture” in the coming years.  In my experience, a clearly articulated vision coupled with a well-refined culture can achieve just about anything.  Culture is defined simply as the practices, beliefs, rituals and ways-of-being among a community of people.  Write a half-page summary describing the culture you have now; then write a half page summary describing the kind of culture you’d need to reach your objectives.  Identify the gaps and develop a strategy for closing them.


5. Open the channels – Get the feedback from front-liners and people several steps down the company ladder.  They should feel they can come directly to you without retaliation.  Layers of bureaucracy create a system of information filters that make leaders a lot like mushrooms – kept in the dark and fed manure.  Make a point to get front line information on a daily basis.  Chances are, there’s nothing more important on your desk than the daily happenings on the front lines.   


6. Bring in fresh blood - When companies get into projects that require seismic change, they often focus exclusively on changing people within the company, some of whom have been entrenched for years, perhaps decades.  This is the wrong place to start.  Evolve the culture by recruiting new people, fuel them with the right inspiration, and they’ll become the change agents you need to improve the company as a whole.  Bringing in a qualified facilitator for this process is a first step for many successful companies.


7. Acknowledge the insights:  Let people know the action that was taken based on their honesty; or if no action was taken, explain why.  This is more important than many leaders think.  Asking for feedback, getting it, and then not doing a thing with it is at least as detrimental to a culture of honesty and feedback as not asking at all.


8. Reward:  An American Airlines flight attendant had an idea that worked its way to the top brass and saved the company millions.  She received a $20,000 bonus and plenty of internal recognition.  The idea has since gone on to make case studies for dozens of learning institutions.  Reprimand privately and praise lavishly in public.


9. Take your head out of the sand – Every business is riddled with realities that can be painful to face.  However, not facing them will surely cause more pain in the long run.  Our need to avoid pain usually overwhelms our desire to gain pleasure.  It will be important to consider the long-term impact of not soliciting honest feedback and looking the hard reality in the eye.


Tom Peters gets over $50,000 for a speech these days, and his consulting firm brings in more than $10 million in annual billings.  A big part of what he sells is honesty. 


Be honest with yourself.  Do you really have an environment that people believe they can communicate honestly within?  If not, you may find yourself in the business equivalent of naked in the middle of a marching band parade.

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